Mood Of The Moment:: aggravated
Yeah so I haven't posted in a while because nothing of interest/annoyance had happened. I don't believe I wrote about my date from Hell in March. Well, not really from hell, he was actually sweet and I felt bad the whole night when he was talking about a "connection" between us, I was like WTF? in my head. He was sweet, but just way too pushy for a first date but first dates can be hard to really be yourself. Then a few days later he asks me if I'd go to a sporting event with him... in June. This was after Date 1, still in the month of March. Naturally I was like "no I will not commit to going now because who knows if we'll be speaking to each other then? If we're still seeing each other in say May, ask me then" and as the convo went on I basically called him obsessive, he got offended, that was the end of that.
Cut to the last few weeks with Snob Guy. When I met him he didn't seem snobby, we had very nice chats about things we have in common. Then suddenly he starts bringing up Golf/Tennis being the only "classy" sports, stories of "the country club" and growing up in an up-scale part of Long Island and how he's living in the area he's living in now (aka the pretty much the area in which I live, one town over in Nassau instead of -gasp- Queens where I am.) "until he can afford better on his own." I considered excommunicating him then on grounds of being a giant Snob. But after thinking it over, I was harsh on March guy and didn't give him a second chance after the whole June fiasco. So I figured, he can be funny and things like that haven't come up in the past, let's see if maybe he was trying overly hard to impress me. This is exactly why I'm fast to write people off. Tonight, after informing him I couldn't meet him at the location he wanted to meet at, so either we would have to pick a place where I could walk too, and considering it was hailing 30mins before, I was still nervous about walking at all, or he could pick me up and we can go where ever. The answer I received by TEXT was:
"I think you're cool. But considering where you come from you should be bending over backwards to go out with me. Oh yeah and try buying a car."
I shit you not. I don't have the text anymore because I didn't even wanna look at it in my phone, but I'm fairly sure I still have it word for word.
This is why I shall continue to judge people the way I have been. Otherwise I waste my time and get endings like that bullshit.
Why can't I meet a guy that doesn't want to plan our life on the first date, and also isn't a Tool that belongs on The Hills.